| "In my busy practice as
a family physician, I have found that the Option
Process® Dialogue as taught in PowerDialoguesSM,
by Barry Neil Kaufman, even if used for five minutes,
helps me to empower my patients and assist them
in making choices that will lead to a healthier
lifestyle. Utilizing PowerDialoguesSM
has increased my compassion for and understanding
of my patients. It has given me hope where I once
felt frustration."
- Lucille Marchand, M.D., B.S.N., Associate Professor,
Department of Family Medicine, University of Wisconsin
Medical School
"I have been a psychiatrist for thirty years.
Never before has any process taught me so much
about how to be with others. The Option Process®
is clear, precise and packs a punch. At the center
of this process are the principles of being present,
being loving, accepting others, and being nondirective.
To have been given tools in PowerDialoguesSM
to follow these principles is a great gift indeed.
I am grateful."
- Ted McCarthy, M.D., Chief of Psychiatry, Mercy
Hospital, Maine
"When I learned the Option Process® at
The Option Institute, my experience was so profound
and so deep that my personal, but also my professional,
life was irrevocably changed. The process enabled
me to question beliefs in a way that went much
further and deeper than any other approach that
I have used as a psychotherapist. PowerDialoguesSM
by Barry Neil Kaufman goes to the core! Every
day in my private practice I see how thankful
people are when I ask them these simple and respectful
questions. I see liberating changes in people
that go beyond any I have seen in the past. The
process and its results are amazing!"
- Frank Stenzel, Licensed Psychologist/Psychotherapist,
Germany
"The attitude underlying PowerDialoguesSM,
presented by Barry Neil Kaufman, is invaluable!
My full presence and calm acceptance of my patients,
whether they are anxious, fearful, or at ease,
is appreciated by them as much as, if not more
than, all my medical knowledge and technical expertise.
Learning and using the attitude of the Option
Process® Dialogue is one of the greatest gifts
a physician could give to themselves or their
patients."
- Sue Davis, M.D., Massachusetts
"PowerDialoguesSM is a
wonderful gift from Barry Neil Kaufman! This process
has provided me with a way of living my faith
in relation to my family, my parishioners and
myself. I encourage everyone, including my clergy
colleagues, to open your hearts to the gift that
awaits you here."
- Kathleen Panning, M.Div., Lutheran Minister,
South Carolina
"I always schedule Option Process® Dialogue
sessions every time I come to The Option Institute.
These sessions are the highlights of my visits.
Through this process, presented here in PowerDialoguesSM,
I have been able to develop my own truths and
have been able to put my new beliefs into action
knowing that I can trust myself to be my own expert.
I feel like a new person."
- Audrey White, Financial Consultant, Texas
"The Option Process® Dialogue (Barry
Neil Kaufman's PowerDialoguesSM)
has helped me listen to clients in a fully attentive
and totally engaged way-with more love than I
ever before knew possible! I now feel confident
in making nonjudgmental assessments and truly
accepting my clients. My practice has bloomed
more than I could possibly have envisioned!"
- Mary-Beth Gangemi, Sociologist/Social Worker,
Certified Option Process® Mentor/Counselor,
North Carolina
"In my work as a spine surgeon, I often see
people with severe and longstanding low back pain.
Frequently, they come to me hoping for a 'surgical
solution' to their problem. However, often there
is no such solution. Faced with this information,
many people respond with frustration and anger.
In the past, after a consultation with such a
person, I, too, would walk away feeling frustrated,
angry and powerless to help. Using the Option
ProcessŪ Dialogue, I came to understand that I
had judged myself as a failure for not having
a definitive solution and had judged my clients
as wrong for expressing their anger to me. I am
now much more comfortable in these situations
and, as a result, am able to attend to my clients
with more attention and care."
- Martin Krag, M.D., Orthopedic Surgeon, Professor
of Orthopedics and Rehabilitation, University
of Vermont, Vermont
"I strongly believe that the Option Process®
Dialogue detailed in PowerDialoguesSM
has benefited many of my patients by leading them
to greater health. In my medical practice of nineteen
years, this process has given me an amazing tool
to help my patients and also myself explore the
mechanisms responsible for unhappy emotions and
behaviors. As Supervisor of students/clinicians
at the Canadian College of Naturopathic Medicine
in Toronto, I use the Option Process® more
and more as a tool for teaching academics. I would
recommend that the Option Process® Dialogue
be taught in every medical school as part of the
curriculum."
- Shimon Levytam, M.D., N.D., D.H.M., Naturopatic
Director, Student/Clinician Supervisor, Canadian
College of Naturopatic Medicine Canada
"The Option Process® has increased my
effectiveness in every area of my profession a
thousand fold! It has enabled me to deepen and
solidify my loving, respectful and nonjudgmental
attitude toward the very special children and
families with whom I work. With the knowledge
that each of us is doing the best we can, and
that we all have our own answers to the challenges
we face, I am able to help my clients find their
own way of maximizing their potential and live
happy, fulfilling lives."
- Ellen Stanley, Developmental Therapist and Special
Educator, Maine
"I am amazed at the simplicity and beauty
of the Option Process® Dialogue and PowerDialoguesSM.
It is such an effective system because it places
what I believe to be the most valuable therapeutic
component-loving attention-at the center of the
process. As both a 'therapist' and a 'client'
I have found the Option Process® Dialogue
to be extremely helpful in changing feelings and
behaviors."
- Bert Voerman, Psychologist, The Netherlands
"As a trial lawyer practicing in Houston
for over eighteen years, I felt certain I knew
what was best for each of my clients. After all,
I was their legal 'expert.' After being introduced
to PowerDialoguesSM (the Option
Process® Dialogue) by Barry Neil Kaufman,
I quickly learned that the true experts were the
personal injury victims I represented. Gone was
my arrogance, which had potentially pushed away
clients. Gone was the incredible burden of having
to know all the right moves. This dialogue process
has changed the interactions I have with clients,
employees, fellow attorneys and judges, smoothing
out what, in the past, would have been insurmountable
conflicts. If you want to shed the mundane weight
of everyday conflict in your law practice, invest
some time in learning the Option Process®
Dialogue!"
- Scott A. Sanes, Personal Injury Trial Lawyer,
Texas
"In my work as a child and family therapist,
I find the Option Process® Dialogue to be
an extremely useful tool. This model of therapy
is effective because it is respectful of the client's
perceptions and ideas. It is empowering because
it helps my clients to identify their strengths
and build upon those strengths to achieve their
goals. Many of my clients want to be happy and
in control of their own lives but are not able
to actualize this. The dialogue helps me to quickly
and lovingly understand my client's issues and
assists me in helping them dismantle the negative
beliefs that are getting in the way of their happiness.
Professionally and personally, I can't begin to
say how thankful I am for Barry Neil Kaufman and
his PowerDialoguesSM! Through
them, I have chosen a life of happiness and love
and am helping others to do the same.""
- Robin McCarthy, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., Founder, Familyworks,
Nonprofit organization providing therapy to low-income
families, Maine
"I have been blessed to know and use the
Option Process® Dialogue! It is the most loving
and powerful way of helping people become happier
that I have ever experienced. Having worked with
adult and adolescent clients in correctional,
drug and alcohol, and mental health residential
treatment programs for five years, the most incredible
thing I notice is that when people are happier
and clearer, they also have fewer tendencies toward
violent, criminal and antisocial behavior. And
in my work as their counselor, I now no longer
experience 'burnout' but instead feel energized
and alive!"
- Peter Dan, residential Counselor, Adult Correctional
Treatment Facility, Residential Counselor, Adolescent
Mental Health Treatment Program, Oregon
"My professional life has greatly benefited
from the Option Process® and the Option Process®
Dialogue (PowerDialoguesSM
by Barry Neil Kaufman). As an emergency room physician
and regional EMS director, I am in a leadership
position. Whenever I can, I share the Option Process®
techniques and attitude with my colleagues. For
example, I have found that letting go of judgments
and attempting to be really authentic with the
staff and patients have had a wonderful effect
on what is often a challenging work environment.
Also, I am more compassionate with my patients,
especially those who are considered 'difficult,'
and we get a lot of them in the emergency room!
Because of PowerDialoguesSM,
I know I can choose to be calm and respectful
no matter what is happening around me. So really,
the Option Process® has helped me not only
to be a better doctor, it's showed me how to be
a more loving human being."
- Geoff Miller, M.D., Emergency Room Physician,
Regional EMS Director, Iowa
"It was not until I attended the PowerDialoguesSM
course at The Option Institute that I truly believed
the answers were within me. For the first time
I now feel in control of my emotions. With the
Option Process® Mentor/Counselor asking me
gentle questions, I was able to unravel my feelings
concerning the past and move forward with a new
freedom I'd never before experienced! I continue
to use this dialogue process with myself and have
adopted the attitude of an Option Process®
mentor/Counselor in my work as a dyslexia consultant.
It allows clients, and particularly their parents,
to resolve the negative feelings they sometimes
have about their dyslexia-and move forward in
a more positive way."
- Jo Bailey, Dyslexia Consultant, United Kingdom
"For over ten years, I have been in the business
of helping diverse people work together to solve
complex issues. I found one of the most powerful
techniques to use in erasing barriers between
people: Barry Neil Kaufman's PowerDialoguesSM!
At a time of crisis in my own life, I learned
the Option Process® Dialogue. Not only did
it help me to transform myself, but I also now
teach it in my own work. As A result, the groups
that I work with are more productive, more successful
than ever before and serve as role models within
their organizations! This process has been critical
to their success!"
- Michael Rubell, President and Senior Consultant,
TeamWorks International, New Jersey
"While I was a naturopathic medical student,
I learned the Option Process® Dialogue and
discovered that I had become a health pessimist.
I had gone from being a health optimist to believing
that we are all susceptible and weak-a disease
waiting to happen. Using PowerDialoguesSM
to explore and question my beliefs, I have, thankfully,
changed back to being optimistic about health.
I now always ask my patients questions about their
beliefs surrounding their illnesses. My patients
are frequently enthusiastic about these conversations
and most often gain insights into their illnesses.
The Option Process® Dialogue has been of tremendous
value to me-and to my clients!"
- Oceana Rames, M.D., Naturopathic Physician,
Massachusetts
"The Option Process® Dialogue has profoundly
changed my podiatry practice and the way I relate
to patients. There is a lot more laughing in my
clinic, even with patients who face life-changing
problems such as major amputations. The stress
levels of both my patients and me have vastly
reduced as a direct result of using PowerDialoguesSM,
and for that I am very grateful."
- Alan Kalker, D.P.M., Clinical Instructor, Department
of Surgery, University of Wisconsin, Wisconsin
"My journey with Barry Neil Kaufman's PowerDialoguesSM
(the Option Process® Dialogue) has enabled
me to radically transform my beliefs and my life.
As An attorney, I used to believe that representing
my clients well necessarily involved many heated,
angry debates with opposing attorneys. I still
represent my clients aggressively but now do so
without using anger or hostility as a tool. Clients
have remarked, when we emerge from negotiating
sessions, that they are astonished that the process
was calm and comfortable and that we still obtained
the outcome they desired."
- Julie Flaherty, Attorney, Minnesota
"A family counselor for more than twenty
years, I found the Option Process® Dialogue
to be incredibly powerful. By simply being a caring
questioner, I am able to be of greater service
to my clients, helping them find solutions to
their issues. As a result, self-trust and empowerment
replace resistance and defensiveness. PowerDialoguesSM
continually demonstrates that it is possible to
understand anything that we truly want to know
about ourselves! It is an adventure in which there
are typically laughter, surprise and release in
discovery!"
- Jane Wyker, Family Counselor, New York
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